The XD smiley face makes me want to kick a puppy.

It's interesting people i know will be hurting and I love them and i have no idea whatsoever what to do. Caring is apparently not enough because people need gestures and they need kind words and all my articulacy just completely leaves me. More than anything I want to help I want them to feel better or i want to make the problem go away and i never have any idea what to do. and then my mind goes to why do i fail at being a good friend instead of trying to think of how to help though i don't think any extended thinking about what to do would give me any ideas anyway.